Mutual Aid March

First of all, I’m profoundly aware that very few of us are wealthy, and none of us are rich. That makes committing to a collective action like mutual aid feel overwhelming at times, and it is very easy to fall into a trap where we keep telling ourselves, "What I’m doing is not enough.” That fear, that sense that our contribution is not enough, which is a short walk to our contributions feeling like nothing, can freeze us into inaction. But within the problem lies the solution: mutual aid has to be mutual. It isn’t about single-handedly solving everyone’s every problem - at least not all at once. It is about the collective.

Helping one person is powerful, because helping one person creates ripples. That one person may go on to help someone else, whether monetarily, emotionally, or just in a way that allows them to be present, for others or for themself, in a way that they couldn’t have been before. If your help only reaches one person, if one person is all you can help? That is already more than enough. That one person is worthy, just as you are worthy. Mutual aid is about many hands making lighter work, and even the smallest contribution joins other hands in lifting the collective.

If you find that that makes sense, and if you’re in a position where your own urgent needs are met, I ask that you consider setting aside 1% to 5% of your paycheck for mutual aid every two weeks (or on whatever schedule you are paid). It might feel like a very small amount. Too small, perhaps. But to someone in need, it could make the most extraordinary difference. And if you truly find that percentage unnoticeable indoor budget, next pay, set aside 6% to 10%.

And please.

Please.

Do not let guilt take you if 1% is all that you can manage. One percent is more than zero. A share, a like, a repost if that 1% does strain you - and believe me, I understand if it does - is more than zero. A personal word or best wishes, letting someone who needs help know that they are seen and that you will help others see them, is more than zero. And that is always, always something.

And if you are struggling, do not hesitate to ask for help. Whether your own need feels insignificantly small or impossibly large, reaching out is the act of trust that allows this collective effort to work. We can only do this together. We cannot do this apart.

We need to move when our lease is up in April. Currently, we live in a house full of mold. It's so bad that it's making all of us sick. Specifically, Lucien can't breathe. They're having asthma attacks several times a day. Also, Sarah has a nearly unbearable increase in pain, fatigue, and brain fog. Greg also has had an increase in pain, confusion, and mood instability. These are all symptoms of mold toxicity. Also, we need to be somewhere safer than we are now. Our legislature in Michigan recently turned red. Our state voted for Trump, and our governor's term is up in 2026. We are afraid that the legislation against trans and disabled people will only get worse. It doesn't help that we haven't made many friends and are very isolated here. We need a broader support system than we have now. As we have to get rid of most of our things anyway—because of the mold—it seems like the perfect time to move to a safer state—one with family, with a trans and disability-friendly legislature, and with weather more suitable for chronic illness. We'd like to move to California to be with family. That's pretty expensive—$8000. But even if we stay here, it's going to be expensive to move—$5000. If we're able to camp in California for the first month or two, it's only $3000-4000. Help will go towards covering application fees, deposits, a trailer rental, and other such fees.

I know it's a big ask but a friend is in a tough spot and could really use some help... Not to go into too much detail she's a single mum with a little lad who's ND... Anything you can give would be amazing...

I still need help with my electricity bill. I'm still a bit behind, but have been able to catch up some. My current bill is $248.49. I can pay $100, but need help paying a little more than half. The rest of my paycheck has other things I need it for, that are also important. ty for reading ❤️ TLDR: $148.49 needed for electric

If anyone can help out, I'd really like to get some weed for relief (i have a med card), and some human food. I have so, so many needs right now like cat litter, rent coming up, but after a few days of little food and no weed I'm past my limits. I just want relief rn. 🥲 all the donations this week went towards bills. I have $18 right now thanks to a thriend. Anything helps.

Posting for a pal who just lost their dear pet/ESA and is in need of funds to cover emergency vet costs & now memorial costs.

Help us get to safety out of this state. Please. This is a genuine emergency. We need 16,000$ to relocate, and are going to need as much of this as possible in by July.

i really need some help getting a pair of shoes, some hygiene items, & some groceries. my only pair of shoes wore out & i need something to wear on my feet day to day. thanks!!

Hey everyone, I hate to ask, but I’ve been putting this off, & now I’m in a tough spot. A few small bills have piled up, & I’ve lost access to my cloud storage, document apps, & phone service—all things I need to work. If anyone can pitch in, even small amounts like $6, $8, $12, or anything toward covering these ($35, $45), I’d be really grateful. On top of that, my internet bill is coming up on 3/26 ($117)—if anyone can help cover that, it would be a lifesaver.

I’m Alixe! I’m a disabled creator living in the South who started off on booktok. These days, I create content around mutual aid, community, and books. Over a year ago I lost my job and have struggled to find work due to my disabilities and location. Now, I survive off my Patreon where I post monthly bookish templates, essays, and more! Please consider joining my Patreon or tipping me on Ko-fi so I can afford basic necessities!